Happy Friday!


Happy Friday, friends! We are off to get some friends married tomorrow and, since it's in our soon-to-be hometown, we'll be exploring Austin a little on Sunday morning before heading home. Any suggestions? We might even try to catch a service at The Stone. 

+ here are a few fun links for your weekend...

  • I've been pleasantly surprised the last few years at how many guys love candles. This one might be a great gift idea for the dude in your life. 
  • Made me laugh.
  • A sweet tee lettered by one of my favorites. 
  • Marcy Cook's work is currently hanging in our church lobby, and it is bringing so much happy into my life. I had no idea she painted, and I've been following her floral company for years now...! 
  • And for you Gilmore Girls lovers... check out these awesomely, wonderfully real baseball cards. 

10 Facts About Gilmore Girls You Probably Never Knew

Since Chris and I have been binge-watching Gilmore Girls, I've been digging around the internet for more articles about the show. It's so much fun to try to catch all of the pop culture references, and the behind-the-scenes details are just as colorful as the show itself... see how many of these you already knew!

Dwell – Colossians, Week 2

I'll be the first to say that theology feels daunting. It sounds like a much more pleasant experience to read a book detailing how Christ's love should represent itself in my daily life as opposed to a book on the mystery of God's holiness. 

However, in Paul's letter to the Colossians, he makes something very clear: knowledge of God is the way to understanding how to live out the Christian life. There is no other path. It's impossible to live like Christ without studying who He is. The church at Colossae was struggling with a few forms of heresy – they were confused about whether or not they should worship angels, what they should touch, what to eat or drink, but mostly they were hazy on where Jesus fell in relation to God and man. They thought that perhaps he wasn't God. Paul wrote to them this encouraging letter to clear the air and inform them of Jesus's supremacy. It is in this letter that Paul describes Jesus with some of the loftiest (and most beautiful) language in all of the New Testament, focusing on Christ's preeminence and supremacy in all things. Christ was and is the visible image of the invisible God (Colossians 2:9). Because of His divine nature, Jesus is sovereign, above all things with an authority given Him by the Father. As such, Jesus is also Head over the church. He has reconciled all things to Himself through His death on the cross, making believers alive to God and setting them on the path to life. 

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So how does this knowledge affect the the way we live? Sure, we can agree and say, "Jesus is God"... but how does that affect what we do with our daily lives? Paul writes that the result of knowing this is that we will walk like Christ, and overflow with gratitude. Both of these things are pretty difficult for me on a daily basis. I fail daily (sometimes hourly) in following Christ's teaching. I'm constantly getting wrapped up in my own selfish ways and setting high expectations for those around me. I'm consistently forgetting how much grace I've been given – and how, in return, I can freely give. And I can say confidently that my heart does not always overflow with gratitude. But I desperately long to live like this.

Thank goodness that knowledge of God's Word, of who He is, opens the door to walking in Christ – to being hidden within Him. He covers all of my shame and looks at me through eyes of endless grace. By walking in Him, I don't have to worry about whether I'm being a "good Christian" and following all of the rules perfectly. I get to receive and give grace and overflow with gratitude and joy. Doesn't that sound a lot better than worrying if you're "doing things the right way" and avoiding "doing things the wrong way?" It's for freedom we've been set free, and the way Christ instructs us to live – the way the knowledge of the Bible instructs us to live – is completely freeing. The boundaries He's set out for us make an open door to living life to it's fullest joy, and frees us from the chains of sin and idolatry. 

Each week, I create an iPhone background with a verse and share it here on TPA. Having God's Word in front of me several times a day helps me in so many ways – it soothes my heart and mind with truth, strengthens my faith, and helps me memorize Scripture so that I can accurately share it with others. Feel free to download the image for your own phone (and pin it and share it, too!) as many times as you'd like.

Happy Friday!

We made it! I've been doing a lot of reading this week, and just started this book. A significant portion of it is on dating and it's made me consider a lot of the hormonal teenage decisions I made growing up. Tomorrow morning some friends and I are going to make use of our Starbucks gift cards to meet up and chat about it. Really looking forward to that.

My three for this week are these three rooms decorated by Emily Henderson – all in the same house! I love Emily's eye for style (and addiction to the color blue, #samesies). This particular home is owned by a fellow Texan, so the nods to the lone star state are more than welcome in my book. And how badly do you want to jump into these beds...?! First up, the master bedroom...

...followed by the guest bedroom...

...and lastly, the living room. She'll be showing more of this house soon, too, so keep checking back on Emily's site! Happy weekend, friends. Hope it's a fun one!

Photos by Tessa Neustadt

Photos by Tessa Neustadt

4 Reasons Why You Should Always Pay for Design


I've been working full-time as a graphic designer for three years now – and if you include school, it's been seven. It really was God working behind the scenes that got me to decide to become a graphic designer. It isn't easy. As a career, it isn't easy. It's an insane challenge, with passionate clients and ever-changing computer programs. There's always more to learn and new ways to "think outside of the box."

I love it.

I'm not necessarily interested in being on the AIGA board someday, or being noted somewhere as the top designer of the year. But I am passionate about providing high quality content to my clients, alongside a customer service experience that is authentic and encouraging. It fires me up to hear their dreams, and I'm honored to be able to make those dreams become a reality. It proves to me over and over again that God can grab hold of every nook and cranny of your life and use it for His glory. What floors me further is that doing this pays our bills.

However, there's something myself and my creative friends have run into a lot. It's that we often get requests to donate our time for free, or we're asked to lower our prices because someone "doesn’t have much of budget to work with.” I've actually been working on this particular post for almost six months now, because I wanted to take the time to research what others are saying, really explore what I think, and interview fellow creatives and friends on the topic. We've all been there! While there are exceptions, there are a few reasons that this isn't good:

1. It’s how we make a living.
Whether or not designing is our full-time job, it’s still how we feed our families. And typically, it’s not a casual hobby – it’s our career. Our work takes creative effort and time. We've either gone to school or spent hours of our personal time learning how to use complicated programs and how to use colors and shapes to create something both visually pleasing that also confidently expresses the mission of your brand. Whew. Pinterest and Instagram (and the internet in general) makes our jobs look fun. What's true is that while, yes, I truly enjoy my work, it's also a business – involving contracts, research, four years of schooling, two years of internships, and lots of time. 

2. You pay your mechanic.
Just like you pay someone to fix your car when it breaks down, you should pay a designer to create (or "refresh") your logo. Design is a service that requires time and effort, just like any other service out there. You also pay for what you get. It may seem that everyone who has an iPhone can be a photographer, but that's really not true. The internet has made it easier than ever for more people to join the creative industry (which has certainly been a huge benefit to myself and many of my friends!) but it can also be deceiving. We come across beautiful homes, branding, websites, and imagery every day on the internet, thousands of times a day. It feels like it should be free or easy. The truth is that high-quality, professional, and reliable service from someone with experience comes with an appropriate price tag... and there are risks when you get it for cheap. 

3. Most “quick tweaks” are not quick.
“It will be easy, you can knock it out quickly.” This is often assumed, and while sometimes it's true, more often it's not. Like I stated above – we've gone to school for this. We've studied hard and done our research. We draw out hundreds of ideas. If you're looking for something high quality, it will take time and that time is worth something. A trustworthy, talented designer will die a little inside if you ask them to “just whip something together, it doesn’t have to be that great.” That's the equivalent of asking us to only do half of what we know how and love to do... we would rather provide you something quality that truly speaks to what your needs are. Let us do that for you. 

4. You take away our chance to be generous.
I know some awesome graphic designers (myself included) who donate their skills regularly. But that is 100% their decision. They are the one that makes the sacrifice of their time and effort... thus, they're the one that gives the gift. If you force it on them, it removes their opportunity to give that gift. Tell us what your budget is up front. We can easily set up a payment plan or trade skills (I love when it goes this way). And, depending on the situation, we'd might gift you with a discount or take on your project free of charge. 

I could probably create a much longer list and I know other designers who could easily add to this. This does not mean that we are angry perfectionists! We are just human beings trying to do our job well. Our families are important to us, and that means our work should sustain them. That's being responsible.


So... what do you do if you honestly don’t have the money and you need something done? Like I stated above, I know my friends and I would be more than happy to trade services. Think of things you are good at, or something you enjoy doing. For simple design or photography requests, I've had people take Chris and I to dinner (we love that – we get the added bonus of actually spending time with you). And for many artists in the wedding industry, exposure can be an great thing to offer – when offered responsibly and honestly. Do your research. If you don't have a written, signed contract with a publisher saying they will share your styled shoot, etc. then do not offer only exposure as your payment. Go ahead and pay your artists for their effort, even if it's just a small fee. If they're as excited as you are for the possibility of being published, they might come back to you and say they'll do it for free! 

I spent the past year doing several projects for free because I gave it as a gift. At the same time, I’ve also learned how to responsibly and appropriately charge for what I do. It's an exciting process, and really... when you pay for something, you're so much more invested in it yourself. Your dreams and business become real when you put a price tag on it. You're becoming a person of commitment and responsibility when you do that, and that's an incredible thing. 

Good design heightens the look of your brand or event. It will be inviting and approachable, attracting more people to what you're doing. It gives you something confident and timeless that you can use for many years. It's something that viewers can use as an identifier of your brand or event. 

Good design has a price tag because it's worth it. 

Question for you...
Regardless of your career, has anyone ever tried to ask you to pursue your craft for free?